Mediumship

About a mediumship session

Most people who come to me for a mediumship reading are carrying someone. A parent, a partner, a child, a dear friend, sometimes a beloved pet. They arrive hoping for one thing above all else: to know that the person they love is still here, still whole, and still close.

Let me tell you what I have learned in more than thirty years of this work. Crossing over is not a goodbye. It is a change of frequency, like someone stepping into the next room and closing a door that was never really locked. In a mediumship session, my job is to open that door gently and let what wants to come through, come through.

Your loved ones in spirit are often more eager to reach you than you are to reach them. They want you to know they made it, that the pain of their final days is gone, and that they are still here for the ordinary, beautiful moments of your life. A session is simply the quiet space where that conversation can finally happen.

What actually happens in a session

If you have never done this before, the beginning is usually more ordinary than you expect.

We start with a short, easy conversation, just enough for your nervous system to settle. You do not need to prove anything or perform your grief. Then I raise my energy and tune in, and I share what comes through exactly as I receive it. Sometimes that is a feeling in my body, a clairsentient sense of your loved one's personality or how they passed. Sometimes it is a name, a phrase they always used, a song, a date. Sometimes it is a quick image, a room, an object, a moment only you would recognize.

You can ask questions the whole way through. And when we are done, I always suggest you take a little time to simply sit with it. What lands in the room and what makes sense three weeks later are rarely the same thing, so recording the session, with permission, is a gift to your future self.

When you are grieving: how a reading can help

Grief does not move in a straight line, and it does not follow anyone else's timeline. There is a particular kind of ache that traditional support, as loving and important as it is, cannot always reach: the ache of the connection itself going quiet.

This is where mediumship does something different. Grief counselling helps you carry the loss and heal your life here, and it matters deeply. A mediumship reading reconnects you to the person, so that what you feel is not only the absence but the relationship continuing. Many people find the two work beautifully hand in hand.

When someone comes to me in grief, their loved one almost always wants to lift the heaviest thing off their shoulders first. They step forward to say that the illness is gone, that a hard passing is over, that a choice you agonized over was the right and loving one.

You do not walk out of a reading with your grief erased. You walk out lighter, because you have felt, with your own senses, that love is the one thing that does not end.

If you would like to understand more first, you may find comfort in Psychic Medium for Grief: When a Reading Can Help and Signs a Deceased Loved One Is Reaching Out to You.

Why sit with me

I have been working as a psychic medium for more than 30 years, and mediumship is some of the most sacred work I do. I work primarily by video and phone with people all over the world, and in person in Toronto when that feels right. My work has been featured on Rogers TV (my show Raising Energy), TCN, Breakfast Television, and in the Toronto Guardian, NOW Toronto, and the National Women's Show. You can read more about me and how I work here.